Wesley Chapel Mission Trip

At the end of June, I traveled with a group from St. Andrew made up of 6 teens and 3 leaders (including myself) to Wesley Chapel, about 45 minutes outside of Tampa, FL. Our mission: help Citrus Grove Church reach and serve families and residents of Wesley Chapel through community events.

Bright and early on Thursday morning, our team boarded the Van Galder bus to Chicago and as we pulled out of the Dutch Mill Park & Ride leaving Madison behind us, none of us knew the plans God had in store for us: connections made with those in Florida, relationships built with our fellow team members, faith strengthened, new adventures experienced, and countless memories made.

When we arrived at O’Hare, we grabbed some lunch at the airport and then kicked things off with a group devotion. Our flight was delayed a couple of hours due to some weather concerns, but eventually we were on the plane and in the air! There was quite a bit of turbulence (to the point that I crashed into the wall inside the bathroom when I got up to use it and the pilot even ordered all the flight attendants to stay seated) which was frightening, but one of the other trip leaders is also a pilot and he told me, “if turbulence could take a plane out of the sky, we wouldn’t be in the air.” Interpret that how you will.

Thankfully, he was right and we landed safely in Tampa where we spotted this huge flamingo installation and had to stop for a quick photo op.

Once we collected our bags and picked up our rental cars, we drove the group to Zaxby’s for a late dinner. The food was pretty good but we quickly got a taste of the Florida heat because the A/C was out in the restaurant!

After everyone had eaten, we drove to our gracious host families’ homes and crashed for the night soon after arriving. In the morning, we got up early to head to Wesley Chapel District Park to set up for a free family event in the park. It was really rainy so we set up snacks, games, a bounce house, and other activities under the park shelter. Our team also helped act out some Bible stories and sing songs with the kids. The weather cleared up mid morning, but unfortunately the rainy start to the day affected the event turn out. A handful of families still came out though, so we were hopefully able to reach a few new people in the community.

Pastor Phil told us a little about the culture of the Wesley Chapel community and surrounding areas, and how little trust and trustworthiness people feel toward others due to the high frequency of scams. Apparently random strangers will approach you in places like the grocery store and act like they want to be your friend, but when you meet up with them for coffee or a hang out later, they will start asking you for personal information or try to sell you something. It sounds like for people in this part of the country, when you hear that something is free or sounds too good to be true, it sounds the alarm bells and tends to scare people off, even if it is a true act of kindness.

Around noon, we tore down and packed up all the food, games, and supplies and headed to KRATE for lunch. It’s a collection of shipping containers-turned-restaurants with just about every type of food you can imagine! We walked around a while just taking it all in, but eventually I landed on a taco place and ordered a carnitas taco salad.

Once everyone had made their selections, we found a spot in the shade to eat together and talk through our midday devotion.

It was extremely hot and humid (though that’s to be expected from Florida in late June), so after lunch we drove to Sunset Beach in Tarpon Springs and put our feet in the water. Someone said they felt something touch their foot and we looked down and there was a big horseshoe crab swimming by!

We hung out in the water for a half hour or so and then met up with Pastor Phil and his family at Mykonos, a Greek restaurant in town. They ordered the saganaki (fried cheese that came out flaming!) for the table, and I had the Greek salad. I enjoyed sitting with Phil’s kiddos and watching their adorable antics.

After dinner, the boys’ host family took us out on a sunset dolphin and shelling cruise! We rode out across the ocean to a little island to collect shells. On the way, the air got cooler as a dark storm cloud rolled over and the winds picked up. I really enjoyed just sitting on the boat and taking it in – the cool air on my skin, the vastness of the ocean, my own feeling of smallness among it all.

When we got out to the island, we spent 20-30 minutes looking for the best shells to bring home. We hoped to find a sand dollar, but they are so fragile and all of them were broken. We did find lots of other shells though and even one that still had a creature living inside (we obviously put that one back in the ocean)!

On the ride back to Tarpon Springs, we got to watch a beautiful sunset and we spotted a couple of dolphins that swam along with the boat for awhile! It was such an incredible evening – I could have stayed out on the water forever.

The next day was Saturday and we headed back to Wesley Chapel District Park for a men’s basketball tournament where we helped keep score of the games and handed out water, Gatorade, and snacks. The players and their friends and family who were there to watch were so surprised that we weren’t charging anything for the food and drinks which goes back to the whole lack of trust and belief that any act of kindness is too good to be true. Everyone was so appreciative – the players were grateful for the bananas when they started cramping up and parents were thrilled to see the healthy snacks we had for kids.

We also handed out flyers for another community event Citrus Grove was hosting the following weekend and let people know that the church is there to serve them and the community. If nothing else, we were able to share some kindness and generosity and be a light to brighten these peoples’ days.

After the tournament, we cleaned up the remaining food and headed to Pinecrest Academy to set up for church the next day. Citrus Grove worships in a school cafeteria so they have to flip the space from lunch tables to pews, and bring in the altar, the pulpit, the piano, speakers, TV screens, banners, a cross, and other altar decorations.

Once the cafeteria was transformed into a place of worship, we drove to one of the host family’s houses for our afternoon devotion and then jumped in the pool to cool off. I had an interesting discussion with the other leaders about the way we perceive color and whether or not we all see colors the same. For example, maybe what you call purple, I see as green. You’d never know because I’ve learned to call that color the same word you call it, even if it looks different to me. The sky is blue, but what actually is blue besides a word that we’ve used to identify it? The idea is a little flawed because we agreed that everyone must perceive light and darkness the same way, but it’s interesting to think about.

After our impromptu pool party, we went to the boys’ host family’s house for dinner (BBQ chicken and ribs off the grill) and a HUGE bonfire. We all sat and talked for an hour or two, tried to scare each other with stories about the Florida dog man legend, and I got more than 30 mosquito bites, but it was a great night.

On Sunday morning, we drove back to Pinecrest for church. Upon arrival, Phil asked me to run to the grocery store down the street to pick up some oranges to make fresh-squeezed orange for the congregation after church. As I was walking back in, I saw a snake slithering along the sidewalk!

The service was really nice – a few of the kids in our group played instruments for the songs and all of the members were super friendly and welcoming. The congregation is an older population and because there aren’t other young families, the children’s devotion was actually just Phil having a family devotion with his kids. It was so precious. After the service, the high schoolers squeezed oranges and we had some time to mingle and eat lunch with the members of Citrus Grove.

Then we had our afternoon devotion in the Pinecrest teacher’s lounge before heading to Lettuce Lake to spot some wild Florida gators! The park has a boardwalk and observation deck built above and along the water which is probably both for safety and visibility between humans and the gators. We heard a lot of them grunting nearby and managed to spot two smaller ones.

It was so so hot and humid at the lake so we didn’t spend a ton of time there. I drank two whole water bottles trying to keep up with how much I was losing to sweat!

When we got back to the car, we cranked up the A/C (and the music) and drove to St. Pete Beach to beat the heat. On the drive there I enjoyed the company of the students, the songs they queued, and the tropical views out the window. (I might have been enjoying myself too much since I missed my exit when we got close to the beach!)

It had been a few years since I’d swam in the ocean and it felt so amazing. Moving with the waves and being humbled when they are much stronger than you. We all got a healthy dose of Vitamin D, a few people got a dose of seagull poop (yuck), and somehow we all managed to not get sunburned.

We grabbed dinner at a beach bar and grill nearby and then headed back to Wesley Chapel. I wasn’t ready for the trip to end, but I had known it would go fast. There were so many moments of awe that I experienced whether through members of our mission team or the beauty of God’s creation. I made an effort to consciously acknowledge those moments so that I could really to soak everything in and enjoy and appreciate every moment.

I invite you to pray for the ministry in Wesley Chapel and I hope to get the opportunity to serve on another mission team soon!

Southern Charm in Savannah & Hilton Head

At the end of April, Scott and I travelled to Savannah, GA with our friends Kali and Kevin and their 18-month son (our godson), Ender. We rented an AirBnb about halfway between Historic Downtown Savannah and Tybee Island which saved us a lot of money on the rental and was the perfect set up for visiting both the city and the beach!

We got in on a Friday evening and after picking up our rental car, we drove to the Pirates’ House for dinner. I ordered the Georgian salmon with peach piccalilli, sweet potatoes and broccolini. Our friends got the crab dip which they gave good reviews but I don’t do shellfish. They also had a kid’s menu which was great for Ender.

Kali and Kevin were in the middle of the 75 Hard Challenge during our trip so after dinner we went for a long walk around town and along the river, which was really beautiful. There were a handful of people singing or playing jazz on trumpets down by the water too.

The next morning, we decided to spend the day exploring downtown Savannah. We started the day with brunch at Alexander’s Bistro. I noticed the employee who rung up our food was wearing a shirt from one of my clients at work so I struck up a conversation and made a connection which was really cool. She said she was in school at SCAD but she loves Wisconsin and wants to go into advertising after college so maybe someday we’ll reconnect.

Scott and I both had the Slow Start Scramble breakfast sandwich and I ordered a glass of Fairy Juice which was Butterfly pea tea and lemonade – both were phenomenal! After a delicious breakfast, we walked over to Forsyth Park to see the iconic fountain. There was also a big farmers’ market going on so we walked through and one of the vendors gave us some honey sticks after we stopped to pet her dog.

On our way out of the park, we came across a street magician who we learned was named Jack Murdock. We stopped to watch his show which was really fun and pretty impressive! The most shocking was when he somehow got an audience member’s dollar bill inside of an orange without cutting it open or any of us noticing him put it in!

That afternoon we went to the Oatland Island Wildlife Center. It was pretty much like a big zoo with a lot of walking trails. We saw some alligators (both in captivity and wild!) and a big cougar came up to the glass and jumped up at us and then started wrestling with the other one! Definitely the most action I’ve ever seen at a zoo!

We were pretty tired after being out all day so we went back and dropped off the boys at the AirBnb and Kali and I went and picked up a couple of pizzas from Mellow Mushroom for dinner. I really enjoyed the Pacific Rim pizza which was like a spicy Hawaiian! After dinner we all drove back downtown and got Ben & Jerry’s for dessert.

The next morning (Sunday), we drove over to Hilton Head Island in South Carolina, to the same area where Kali and Kevin spent their honeymoon. We stopped in at the Hilton Head Social Bakery in Shelter Cove for some chai tea and pastries. The fruit tart I ordered was amazing, but our chai lattes were made way too strongly so we took them back inside to see if they could remake them. Someone else came out and we explained the situation. The employee grabbed Kali’s drink and took a sip, immediately looking repulsed (it was truly like straight cinnamon juice). He started remaking them right away, and Kali reminded him to put almond milk in hers. Suddenly, he turned around and said, “Almond?! I’m allergic to almonds!” He panicked and grabbed a water bottle which he began chugging and I dug through my purse and pulled out a couple of blister-packed Benadryls. He declined at first, saying he would be okay, but I insisted he hang on to them just in case. He finished making our drinks and we walked outside. Not five minutes later, he ran out to our table and told me that he was feeling super itchy and thanked me, saying he had taken the Benadryl. Then he ran down the sidewalk and we didn’t see him again!

We walked down the sidewalk in that direction and even checked the bathrooms, but he was nowhere to be found. It started to rain so we ducked into one of the souvenir shops and bought some t-shirts and hats while we waited for the cloud to pass. It was a heavy rain, but was over fast so we changed into our swimsuits and started walking towards the beach.

It was about a 30-40 minute walk but when we arrived it was so nice to be on the beach. It was a bit windy and the water was kind of cold, but there’s just something about being near the ocean. We ordered some piña coladas and enjoyed having our feet in the sand.

Kali had made dinner reservations at Ela’s, their favorite restaurant from their honeymoon, so we walked back to the Shelter Cove Marina. Scott and I split a Caesar salad which was served on really unique teardrop plates. Since I’m not big on seafood, I ordered the Vegetarian Pasta Primavera which tasted super fresh and delicious!

After dinner we walked around the marina a bit and took some pictures and then drove back to Savannah. We watched an episode of Ted Lasso at the AirBnb and then called it a night after Scott dozed off and started talking in his sleep!

The next morning was our last full day and it was time for a beach day at Tybee Island! A lot of the breakfast spots in Tybee didn’t open until later, but we found some tasty food at The Breakfast Club. Unfortunately, we also got a parking ticket, so definitely make sure you pay attention to signs in that area! Even if the sign is way down the block they will hold you accountable!

We drove down to the beach after breakfast where we made sure to pay for our parking and then found a spot to camp out on the sand. Scott walked Ender down to the water to splash around while Kali and I dug holes in the sand to take some fun photos.

Later we walked over to the pier to film a video and take some more pictures. I jumped on Scott’s back for a picture and when he put me down, I wasn’t expecting it and fell backwards onto the sand! In my moment of surprise, my reflexes kicked in and I reached to grab onto something and accidentally pulled Scott’s swim trunks down to his ankles! After the initial shock and embarrassment of the moment, we all had a good laugh about it.

We walked along the pier and got some frozen treats to cool off and then walked around the island so Kali and Kevin could get their 45 minute outdoor activity in for the 75 Hard. For dinner we drove back to Savannah and went to the rooftop restaurant, Bar Julian. It’s on top of the Thompson Hotel and overlooks the Savannah river. Our salad and both pizzas were fantastic, but I have to call out the most unique thing we ordered – the pepperoni butter! It’s hard to describe other than it was salty, buttery, and well, pepperoni-y and it went perfectly with the freshly baked bread it was served with. It was easily one of my favorite meals from the whole weekend.

After dinner, we closed out the trip with a walking ghost tour in downtown Savannah! Our tour guide was really great and pointed out lots of buildings with paranormal reports and eerie stories behind them.

After the tour, we walked down to the river one more time and bought some more t-shirts and souvenirs and then got ice cream from Leopold’s. The line was way down the street but my lavender ice cream was definitely worth the wait. Thanks for the good vibes and great memories Savannah!

Being Kind to Myself and Living Slow in Orange County

7 Things I learned on my first trip of 2023

Work and life can eventually catch up to you when you’re trying to do too much, which is exactly what happened to me at the end of 2022. I started feeling more anxious and developed chronic chest pain.

In mid January, I traveled to Orange County, California for some much needed R&R. We slept in, took our time in the mornings and getting places, and had plenty of down time in between activities and time to wind down at night.

1. Say no, Stay in, Do less

After our first full day in California, I still felt stressed and overwhelmed. I ended up needing to say no to dinner out that night. We stayed in, made pizzas, and watched TV. Say yes to the things that will serve you or make you happy, but be okay with saying no when something won’t energize you or bring you joy.

2. Slow down and breathe

Why are we always in such a rush? In part, for me, it goes back to number one. I get FOMO, try to do everything and overbook myself. It’s no wonder I find myself running late to everything, end up exhausted at the end of the day, wake up feeling not well-rested, and then start it all over again. It’s a vicious cycle.

Since getting back from our trip, I’m trying to complete everyday tasks at a more leisurely pace. In California, we took our time getting ready in the morning, did our hair and makeup, pampered ourselves, and left the house for the day feeling 100%.

In the airport, I remember rushing to get checked-in and through security. Our hands were shaky, we fumbled with our bags, and panicked to get to our gate on time, only to have to sit and wait for nearly an hour. When we rush and scramble, we end up making more mistakes that can delay us even further.

3. Stop multitasking

Take things one at a time. When there is too much to keep track of, make a list to prioritize tasks. Focus on what is in front of you. And take breaks when you need to, to get re-grounded. My favorite breaks involve a stop at the nearest coffee shop for chai lattes or (on this trip), lavender milk tea!

4. Be mindful and present

Look up from your phone and appreciate your surroundings and the people around you. If you know me, you know I love to capture every moment in photos and videos so this is a really challenging one for me, but I think you get more enjoyment from an activity if you try to be present in that moment. Take the picture and then focus on enjoying what’s in front of you.

The other part of mindfulness involves paying attention to what your body is telling you. If you feel stressed, don’t overdo it. If you feel tired, rest. If you want ice cream… well, life is short! Have the ice cream (in moderation of course).

5. Move your body

In California, I took time for morning stretches and yoga, and we walked around quite a bit during the day, whether we were shopping, exploring a town, or just enjoying the oceanside views.

Maybe you try yoga or maybe you walk somewhere instead of driving. It doesn’t have to be high-intensity activity or a “workout.” Just get up and get the blood flowing. I find this usually gives me more energy and brainpower to accomplish other tasks. Exercise and movement are also incredibly beneficial for reducing anxiety!

6. Get outside

Whatever the season! But especially if you live near palm trees. Soak up the sun, play in the snow, and dance in the rain. Fresh air can work wonders.

7. Rest, rest, rest

At the end of the day, don’t push yourself beyond your limits. Our bodies are designed to need rest.

Certainly many of these things are easier said than done (and easier when you’re on vacation and don’t have your regular responsibilities to take care of), but I’m hoping to keep gradually incorporating these things into my life and work toward achieving a more stress-free, slow life. At the end of the day, if you take nothing else away from this, my mantra for the rest of the year is “be kind to yourself,” and I hope it can be yours too.

England Part 2: London

When we got off the train from Bath at London Paddington Station, we walked toward our new AirBnb near Edgeware Rd. It wasn’t quite ready yet when we arrived so we stopped at a little Italian place, Zonzo, for a quick bite. The owner or manager of the restaurant was extremely accommodating, letting us stow our bags and sit for over an hour. Unfortunately, while the food in Bath was all fantastic, our first lunch in London was not a great one for me. I ordered a bruschetta that looked incredible, but tasted very tangy and just… off (dare I say carbonated?). My friends seemed to enjoy their food though, so maybe just order a regular pasta dish if you find yourself there.

Once we got into our AirBnb and were all settled, we changed clothes and took our first ride on the tube to Charing Cross and then walked to Westminster Abbey for the Evensong service. This was a special (and free) way to experience the Abbey and I’m glad we made a point to do it.

After the service we walked around and saw all the iconic London sites: Big Ben, the London Eye (from across the river), Buckingham Palace, and Piccadilly Circus.

By the time we got to Piccadilly Circus, I was getting pretty hungry (you know, not eating much of my lunch and all), and we walked past the St. James Tavern. According to their signage, they were famous for their award-winning, traditional fish and chips. That was something I was hoping to try while we were there anyway, and it was Friday after all, so we decided to go in. It turned out we arrived pretty close to when the kitchen closed, and by the messy state of our table and the haphazard arrangement of others, it looked like the dinner rush had just ended. I ordered the fish and chips and was a bit disappointed by how bland it was. Maybe we just went to the wrong spot, but after that experience, I will probably stick to my Wisconsin fish frys.

The next morning we had another new public transport experience – riding on the top of a double decker city bus!

We rode it to the British Museum, where we spent several hours. Within the first five minutes, I saw the Rosetta Stone, which was very interesting and helped me understand where the language-learning company got its name. After seeing that and some giant Egyptian Pharaoh statues though, I quickly got burned out on the museum exploration.

Thankfully, by 2pm, my travel companions were also ready to move on and we headed to Portobello Market for some shopping. I had a croissant and a chai latte from Hermanos Colombian Coffee Roasters for an afternoon pick me up and then enjoyed looking at the vendors’ goods and colorful architecture of the storefronts.

For dinner that evening, we had reservations at Bob Bob Ricard and thankfully that was an incredibly delicious dining experience. We started with some cocktails; if I remember correctly, I had a Strawberry & Peach martini. It was a foamy drink and had an extremely soft and smooth mouthfeel. I was tempted to try ordering some champagne from the button at our table, but instead opted to enjoy some champagne in my entree, the Chicken and Champagne Pie. It was very delicious and I am confident it was and will be the fanciest pot pie of my life.

We didn’t slow down when we got to dessert; I had the Strawberries & Cream Soufflé and my friend ordered the Crème Brûlée which came out flaming. We also shared a glass of dessert wine: Vin de Constance from South Africa, which is reportedly Africa’s greatest wine and was requested by Emperor Napoleon Bonaparte on his death bed. It was as rich and as sweet as honey.

The next day, my friends wanted to see more museums, so I decided to have a solo travel day. I started the morning by heading to Buckingham Palace again to watch the changing of the guard. I was a bit late (it turns out on time is late for this event) so it was hard to get a spot where I could see until it was almost over. I was glad to go and see what I could though and was thankful we had seen it when it was much less crowded a couple of days before.

When the ceremony was over, I walked down Buckingham Palace Rd until I came upon this adorable restaurant called Timmy Green. I sat down and ordered a glass of OJ and some French toast from my phone. When the server brought the juice, I asked if I could quickly verify that the bread used for the French toast didn’t contain buckwheat. To my surprise and dread (and relief?), when he brought back the ingredient list, there it was! Thankfully, he graciously swapped my order for some pancakes. I ask almost everywhere I go, but it felt like a near miss so I was a little bit shook.

After I finished my meal, I walked inside to use the restroom before heading out and managed to trip going up the stairs, smashing my right big toe into one of the steps, and my left shin into another (not to mention falling and making a large crash in front of the whole restaurant from the stage that the open stairway provided). I picked myself up, assured the bartender I was alright, and sheepishly limped to the bathroom where I discovered my toenail was bleeding.

Determined not to let this ruin my day, I took some breaths, somehow got the bleeding to stop (mostly), and walked out with my head high (or at least tried), and continued on to the most highly-anticipated activity of the trip: visiting the mysterious standing stones at Stonehenge.

I enjoyed the 90ish minutes on the bus to relax. When we arrived at the parking lot/visitor center, we were given the option to walk the rest of the way to the stones or take a shuttle. It was supposedly about a 30 minute walk, which on a normal day I would have done, but given the toenail situation, I took the shuttle bus.

When I reached the stones, I noticed a young lady around my age who was standing alone, so I approached her and asked her to take the photo below. It turned out she was visiting London from California on business, and had the day free so had decided to make the trip to Stonehenge solo as well. It was perfect – we walked around the site together, taking photos of each other and chatting about our lives and travels.

It was awesome to see the standing stones (especially with my love for Outlander), and of course I had to pick up a Stonehenge sweatshirt and a couple of other souvenirs to commemorate the experience. I was also proud of myself for prioritizing the thing I was most excited to see and enjoying a solo day in England.

The next day was our last full day abroad. We spent the morning exploring Hyde Park and saw Kensington Palace and the Italian Gardens.

Then we took a train from London to Windsor, where our first stop was lunch at Black Sheep Coffee. Then we walked to Windsor Castle to take a tour. There was so much celebration of the Queen’s Jubilee and it felt as though she would live forever – this just three days before she unfortunately died.

We weren’t allowed to take photos inside the castle, but we took plenty outside and then bought some Windsor Castle treats and souvenirs from the gift shop to bring back with us to the States. With our treasures in hand, we walked back into town to Brown’s Brasserie & Bar for afternoon tea. Unlike our more spontaneous afternoon tea in Bath, we had a reservation at Brown’s and were ready for the full experience.

We devoured nearly two towers of cakes, sandwiches, and pastries, as well as several cups of Earl Grey with cream and sugar (it’s so much better that way – I’m never going back)! When we arrived back in Marylebone that evening, we did some shopping at Daunt Books (sadly no, I did not purchase “Wild Kilted Yoga”), and then visited Waitrose one last time to pick up some tea and biscuits to bring home.

It was a whirlwind week and an unforgettable first trip to the UK and Europe. Looking forward to making the trip again soon with the hubs, and hopefully see Scotland too. 🙂

The City of Bath, England

In August, I took my first trip overseas to England! We took an overnight flight (my first red eye) and arrived in London (Heathrow) late morning. I hardly slept on the plane, so I almost dozed off as we took the Great Western Railway to Bath.

In an effort to save money, we decided to walk from the train station in Bath to our AirBnB, which, after lugging our suitcases across the cobblestone city, we realized was located at the top a very large hill. It provided impressive views overlooking the city, but also a fun challenge to reach our flat.

Said flat was on the third floor of the building, and it was actually not “flat,” but instead a two-story apartment. But after several flights of stairs, we finally made it to what would our home for the next several days.

After settling into our AirBnb, we desperately wanted to sleep, but fought off the jet-lag for a couple more hours and walked to a nearby restaurant, Bill’s, for dinner. I ordered the burger they had on special that night, which was topped with mac and cheese! It was delicious and tasted refreshingly familiar on my first night abroad. I was also very impressed, when I mentioned my allergy to buckwheat, how diligent they were about ensuring my meal was safe and allergen-free. I would soon realize that this was a common trend across the whole city and even country.

After dinner, we went back to our AirBnB and crashed in our beds. In the morning, we walked to the Thermae Bath Spa to continue our relaxation and rejuvenation after our long journey. The main spa has two geothermic pools, which use the same naturally heated water as the Roman Baths across the street. One of the pools is on the rooftop, with views overlooking the city. The spa has a strict no-devices policy, so I wasn’t able to take photos during our time, but I snapped a couple outside and on my way out. It was an amazing experience and I highly recommend that everyone spends a few hours in a local spa after any long flight.

After two hours of soaking in the pools and sitting in the steam rooms, we showered off and headed back out into the city in search of lunch. We walked past All Bar One and saw that they had a lunch special – a sandwich and glass of wine for only 9 pounds! We couldn’t pass it up. I enjoyed a ham and cheese toastie (such a cute name!) and a glass of rosé. And again, the staff was exceedingly accommodating with my allergy, spending several minutes checking ingredients lists to ensure that the bread was safe for me to eat. I was loving this place already.

After lunch, we walked back to the Roman Baths and took the official tour. There was so much history to learn about and of course, so many photo ops. It was interesting to learn about the varying purposes of different pools, some warm and some cold, and the healing properties of the water as it contains over 40 minerals. It’s also kind of crazy to think that the baths were used for public bathing. Men and women weren’t always permitted to bathe together, but they didn’t use bathing suits back then, and many of the bathers’ clothes was taken by thieves! Can you imagine?

We did a little shopping at the Roman Baths’ gift shop and a local market and then walked across the river to the Holbourne Museum and visited a few more shops. By this point, I was well over my step goal for the day and was feeling tired so we went back to our flat for a little downtime and a siesta.

A little before 8pm, we ventured back out for dinner at Turtle Bay, where I ordered a West Indian curry. I’d never had anything quite like it, but it was spicy and delicious.

After dinner, we spent the night in, playing a Jane Austen card game and practicing our (terrible) English accents.

The next morning, we went to brunch at The Ivy. I had a peach & elderflower iced tea, buttermilk pancakes with blueberries, lemon balm and a side of streaky bacon (I think they specify the “streaky” bacon to differentiate from ham/Canadian bacon?). The food was incredible and there were so many photo ops – even the bathroom was immaculate!

We did a little more shopping after brunch and then I went back to the AirBnB to unhurriedly do my hair and makeup for afternoon tea, while my friends went to the Fashion Museum and the Jane Austen Centre. (I can quickly get burned out on museums, so I didn’t mind having a bit of relaxing time to myself in the flat.)

When I was ready, we met up at the Circus (a ring of historic townhouses), and then walked to Sweet Little Things together for afternoon tea. We got the locations mixed up and the shop we went to wasn’t serving afternoon tea (the all-inclusive version with a tower of pastries and finger sandwiches), but we had a lovely experience all the same. My chai tea latte was gorgeous – I think it looked better than it tasted! From what I remember the chai tea there was less spiced and more milky than what I was used to in the US. No complaints though.

After we finished our tea, we walked to the other side of Bath that we hadn’t yet explored since arriving. We stumbled upon the Abbey Deli, which was the set of the Modiste in Bridgerton! We visited a handful of other shops as we walked to a bookstore, where I browsed books in the basement, while my friends looked at several old, historic prints.

Then we headed to the Bath Abbey for a quick self-guided tour before they closed for the evening prayer service. On the way, we were getting a bit hungry and made a quick stop for Cornish pasties. People say British food isn’t that good, but I enjoyed the pasty (and everything else I had tried so far)!

For our last dinner in Bath, we ate at Bosco Pizzeria and it was nice enough to sit outside on the patio. I ordered the simple, yet delicious Bosco pizza (essentially a Margherita). I remember I was thinking a lot about Scott during dinner as this day was our 4-year wedding anniversary and he was back home in Wisconsin.

It was also at this dinner that we were first charged for still water. We had heard that you had to pay for water in Europe, but up to this point, had only been charged for it when we ordered sparkling water. We realized the distinction you have to make is to specifically ask for tap water. If you say “still,” they will bring you a bottle of still water for the table. From then on, whoever made the mistake of forgetting to specify “tap” had to buy the water for the table. That night, I believe it was me.

The next morning, we got up a little early, I ate my leftover curry, and we did some last minute shopping at Rossiters and Persephone Books. Then we packed up our suitcases, checked out of our AirBnB, dragged our luggage back down the hill and across the city, caught a train to London Paddington, and began the next leg of our journey.

St. Louis: The Gateway to the West

At the end of June, I roadtripped down to St. Louis, Missouri to visit some of my girlfriends. On the way down, I drove with a couple from my church who was headed to the Ozarks the following week and spent a night in our STL hotel with us. On the way back, I drove by myself and it was my longest solo roadtrip!

We arrived at our hotel (the Holiday Inn Express in Central West End) late afternoon on Friday and checked in to relax and get settled. After an hour or so we freshened up and headed downtown for the Cardinals v Cubs game at Busch Stadium. Before the game we went to Paddy-O’s for dinner and drinks. I ordered a cheeseburger which came with a bag of chips, and then headed over to the Deep Eddy’s Vodka truck for a cocktail. They had limited mixers so I landed on a Ruby Red Grapefruit and Sprite. Tasty, refreshing, and of course, pink.

After dinner and a round of bags on Paddy-O’s patio, we walked over to the stadium. It was a hot night for a game (the whole time we were in STL it was in the 90s actually), with hardly any breeze, so we had to step out for water at the concession stand and an A/C break in the team store.

I’m typically a Brewers fan, being from Wisconsin, but I was happy to assume the role of a Cardinals fan for the weekend (especially since they were playing the Cubs). Sadly, the Cards lost that night, but it was still a fun experience to see the stadium and enjoy the ballpark atmosphere.

On our way back to the hotel, I insisted we stop at Jeni’s Splendid Ice Creams (you’ll know Jeni’s is a favorite of mine if you’ve read my Columbus and Chicago blogs). I got a bowl of Wildberry Lavender and Sweet Cream Biscuits & Peach Jam. Fantastic as always!

The next morning (Saturday), we slept in and then got ready and went to Anheuser-Busch for a brewery tour. Unfortunately, they were all sold out for the day by the time we arrived, so we decided to stay for lunch and then booked a tour for the next day. I had the pulled pork nachos with beer cheese!

After lunch, we decided to grab a frozen cocktail flight from Narwhal’s Crafted to help us beat the heat. I tried the Strawberry Peach Bellini, Passion Fruit Punch, and the Watermelon Frosé. Yum, yum, and yum! We sat outside on the patio, and it was so hot, the drinks started melting almost immediately. They were delicious and refreshing, but I was grateful for the air conditioning when we left and went to the Arch.

If you know me, you know I don’t like heights, but what’s the point of going to the Arch if you aren’t going to take a rickety tram ride to the top? The trams looked like little space pods and were a bit claustrophobic. They each held only five passengers and from the side seats, I had to duck my head to fit! But despite the questionable ride, it was totally worth it for the views (and the experience).

Once we arrived safely back on the ground, we explored the museum and the Arch gift shop before heading to The Hill for dinner. The Hill is an Italian neighborhood, with more Italian restaurants than I could count. They were all very busy, and we put our name on three waitlists before eventually getting a table at Anthonino’s. We were still recovering from the heat of the day too much to drink anything other than water, but we ordered the toasted ravioli as a starter. It’s a St. Louis staple and absolutely delizioso! And as if that wasn’t enough ravioli, I ordered the “regular” ravioli with a house salad for my main. That was also delicious and the big portions meant I got to take a couple raviolis home for later.

We opted out of dessert at Anthonino’s, so we could make a stop at Gelato di Riso for well, gelato. I was in the mood for something fruity so I had the Blood Orange and Blueberry. After dessert we walked behind the building to Piazza Imo – an elegant courtyard with a marble fountain and tables set up for chess and checkers.

The next day was Sunday and we started it off with brunch at The Bellwether. I had the Cinnamon Toast Crunch French Toast and of course a mimosa.

Then we headed back to Anheuser-Busch for our tour! We arrived a bit early so we spent some time in the Biergarten where I tried Field of Dreams, a lager with a hint of strawberry from their Underground Collection. The tour was neat. It was cool learning about the brewing process and seeing all the different buildings, but my favorite part was getting to see the Budweiser Clydesdales, one of which was named Scott (my husband’s name if you’re new here)!

After our tour, we headed to Mission Taco for an early dinner (and more drinks). I had the Smuggler’s Blues which was house made frozen margarita swirled with strawberry-pineapple agua fresca and coconut syrup. Delish.

After dinner, we wanted to go to a karaoke bar because I’ve never done karaoke before, but sadly it was closed. We stopped at the Protagonist Cafe, a coffeeshop-bookstore next door instead. I found a used copy of “Beartown” by Frederick Backman that I had to buy; I read Backman’s “Anxious People” last year and I think it’s still my favorite book, so I’m looking forward to checking out another one by him.

We had wanted to rent a paddle boat in Forest Park after dinner, but we arrived a little too close to when the Boathouse closed, so we decided to walk around the park instead. We explored lots of paths, buildings, water features and fountains, and eventually ended up at the Jewel Box – a beautiful greenhouse that is also used as an event venue.

After our walk, we ended the night at Clementine’s Creamery where they make “Naughty” (aka alcohol-infused) and “Nice” ice cream. I sampled the Chocolate Cabernet (Naughty) which was tasty, but I ended up opting for the Honey Lavender (Nice).

The next day, Monday, was our last day in STL. After checking out of the hotel, we went to Salt + Smoke for lunch. I had the St. Louis Cut Ribs with fries and White Cheddar Cracker Mac. They had lots of sauces to try too – I loved the My Sweet Bestie. I also had LOTS of leftovers here that I took home and ate with Scott back in Wisconsin.

After lunch, it was time to get on the road so I could make it back by dinner time/before dark. I turned on my audiobook and made the five and a half hour drive back (with only one stop!).

It was excellent trip – s/o to St. Louis for being yet another Midwest city to surprise me!

Yeehaw! Nashville Girls Trip!

At the beginning of April, I got to fly down to Nashville for a long weekend with some girlfriends from high school. We took an early morning flight and got in around noon on Saturday. Upon our arrival, we headed promptly to Hampton Social for a giant shell of frosé bigger than our heads, and some delicious parmesan truffle fries. We also of course took advantage of all the photo ops.

Then we headed over to L&L Market for some shopping and enjoying the conveyor belts of cheese and charcuterie at Culture & Co.

After fueling up and enjoying a short siesta to recover from our early flight, we changed clothes and went back out for dinner and exploring. Even though we didn’t eat there, we had to make a stop at Restoration Hardware to appreciate the rooftop views and luxury furniture. For dinner we actually went to the nearby Emmy Squared for pizza.

Day 2 was for sleeping in and boozy brunch! But not before a delicious strawberry peach smoothie from The Well Coffeehouse. Post-smoothie brunch was at Liberty Common and the frozen cocktails and chicken and waffles did not disappoint.

As if Liberty Common didn’t meet our food and drink quota for the day (it did), we headed off on a one-hour road trip to Arrington Vineyards in, well, Arrington, where we popped some bubbly and built a stunning board of cheese, fruit, and sweets.

We sipped, snacked, and listened to the live music on the grass as the sun set. Does it get any better?

On the way home, we picked up some Nashville Hot Chicken and I got to try it for the first time. I typically like a little bit of spice, but this was HOT for me!

The next day, Monday, we picked up some coffee and loaded doughnuts for breakfast from Parlor Doughnuts.

Once caffeinated and riding our sugar high, we went out on a self-guided Nashville mural tour. Here are a few of the highlights:

After snapping pics in front of all the murals, we changed and went to the Fairlane Hotel to visit the rooftop pop-up: The Bouquet Bar.

The space was covered in florals from floor to ceiling, and of course offered some great city views from the rooftop patio. The floral cocktails were pricey, but there was no fee to enter the decked out bar, so it was worth it.

You can’t go to Nashville and not see live music, so after our pink, floral drinks, we went and saw The Song Suffragettes, which is a weekly show at The Listening Room Cafe featuring female artists who are trying to make it in country music. One of the ladies performing the night we were there was Olivia Faye who was on the most recent season of American Idol! Country isn’t my favorite genre, but all of these ladies were super talented and I really enjoyed the show! Afterwards, we went to Rosemary & Beauty Queen which was an old house converted into a bar!

Tuesday was our last full day in Nashville and of course we started it with brunch and strawberry mimosas at Another Broken Egg. We also realized that we’ve known each other for over 10 years and harassed our waiter asking which of us he thought had changed the most over the last decade. We got mixed reviews.

After brunch we went shopping for a while and the went to both the new and the old the Grand Ole Opry.

After grabbing photos outside both Oprys, we went to Assembly Food Hall for dinner (where I ordered hot chicken round 2 from Prince’s) and found this adorable truck full of flowers in one of the outdoor walkways.

It was a whirlwind weekend full of wine, cocktails, brunch, music, photos and catching up with old friends – the perfect girls trip getaway! Yeehaw!

Southwest is Best: Exploring New Mexico & Arizona

My husband and I recently traveled to Albuquerque, New Mexico – our first trip together just the two of us since our honeymoon in 2018! And when I say we went to Albuquerque, we made Albuquerque our home base, but we drove all around the state in the five days we were there and even crossed the boarder into Arizona.

When our flight landed in Albuquerque on Thursday, we picked up our Turo rental car from the lovely Raquel, and checked into our Airbnb (The Enchanted Sage) near the Laurelwoods and West Mesa neighborhoods. After a getting settled in and taking a little siesta, we went to the River of Lights holiday display at the ABQ BioPark Botanic Garden.

It was an impressive display, and while it was definitely geared a bit towards families with kids, we enjoyed walking through the lights and felt it was a festive welcome to our time in the Southwest. We also popped into the aquarium on our way out and watched sharks and stingrays swimming right in front of us for probably about 20 minutes. I was totally mesmerized.

The next morning we got up around 4:00am and took Route 66 west to Gallup, NM to watch the mass ascension of hot air balloons at the 40th annual Red Rock Balloon Rally. It was definitely worth it for these views:

It was less of a touristy event, and seemed more for the actual balloonists themselves, but hiking through Red Rock State Park surrounded by hot air balloons was a truly magical experience. We sadly did not get the balloon ride I was hoping for, but there were very few spectators and event attendees aside from the balloonists, so we were just glad to be able to see the vibrant balloons floating all around us.

We hiked for a couple of hours and slowly the balloons started to land. It looked like they were coming down to break for lunch, and we were starting to get hungry too, so we headed into Gallup and stopped for a bite to eat at Fratelli’s Bistro.

Gallup is only about 20 miles from the Arizona boarder and Scott had never been, so we knew we had to make the drive. Raquel, our Turo host, had given us a National Park tag to use for the week, so we decided to spend the rest of the day at the Petrified Forest National Park in Arizona.

There were so many miles of park to explore. They said you can drive the whole park in about an hour if you make minimal stops, but we spent around three hours exploring and ended up stopping at around half of the trails and overlooks. After several hours of exploring, I was feeling exhausted and out of breath which I think was partially due to a mild case of altitude sickness, so we called it a day and hopped back on Route 66 to Albuquerque.

The next morning, we enjoyed sleeping in late. Once we were feeling fully rested, we made our way to Tia B’s La Waffleria. I highly recommend spending your Saturday sleeping in, finding a cute Waffleria, and fueling up with berry lavender waffles. Would you believe me if I said I ate the whole plate? I was pretty darn close.

Scott rolled me to the car, and then we drove to the base of the Sandia Mountains to ride the Sandia Peak Tramway to the top. This was an incredible experience, although totally terrifying if you’re not a fan of heights (like me). Crazily enough, just a week or two after we rode it, the tramway got stuck and more than 20 people had to be rescued by helicopter!

At the top, we walked along the crest for about a mile or so to the Kiwanis Cabin, and were surprised to see snow on the ground! Didn’t we head south to escape the snow for the winter?

Thankfully, we didn’t get too cold and we made it safely back to the ground. We then made a last minute decision to go to El Pinto for dinner, which was a great decision if I must say so myself.

The photos really don’t do it justice. The patio was actually so magical, with plants all around and even a black cat wandering the space and saying hello to guests! And the food was so good, I forgot to take a picture until it was already halfway gone! With full bellies and tired legs, we went back to our Airbnb and enjoyed a cozy night in for the rest of the evening.

On day four, our second to last day, we drove north to Jemez Springs to explore some natural hot springs. There were a few in the area but some required long hikes to reach, so we opted for Spence Hot Springs. It still required a short hike on an unmarked trail to get to the springs, but was easy enough to find, and totally worth it. There were a couple of different pools of varying temperatures and even a steamy hidden cave that we sat in for a while. We chatted with a couple of travel nurses who were out exploring and enjoying their weekend, but it really wasn’t very busy otherwise.

After a nice relaxing soak, we hiked back to the car and drove to Santa Fe. We went downtown and explored lots of cute little shops for a while. Okay, so maybe I shopped and Scott just tagged along, but we found some fun souvenirs and treats to bring home for family and friends.

As with every vacation, the days flew by and before we knew it, it was our last day in Albuquerque. We brought the trip full circle by spending the morning at the ABQ BioPark Zoo looking at the animals. We were impressed by the zoo’s upkeep and the variety of animals that were there. A tiger roared for us as it paced its enclosure, penguins swam overhead and underfoot in the Penguin Chill exhibit, and we even watched a baby hippo play with mom and dad in their family’s little pond.

After the zoo, we went to Sawmill Market for lunch. Sawmill Market is a collection of restaurants and bars under one roof (more or less an upscale food court!), to allow everyone in your crew to find something they love no matter their mood. I opted for Hawt Pizza Co. (don’t sleep on the Lavender Lemonade!) and Scott had a burger from Dr Field Goods. Sadly we were there too early in the day for the adorable Botanic Bar to be open, but hopefully next time!

After lunch, we met up with Raquel to drop off the rental car, and then it was time to head back to Wisco. It’s always bittersweet when a vacation comes to an end, but we’re both grateful to have had the chance to visit New Mexico and Arizona and experience the welcoming Southwest culture and beautiful desert scenery. Can’t wait for our next adventure!

Mini Tomato & Cheddar Frittatas for Your Sunday Brunch

The first Sunday of 2022 calls for Sunday brunch! I mixed up these mini tomato and cheddar frittatas for an easy, tasty bite after church this morning. I was hoping we’d have leftovers to eat for breakfast throughout the week, but who am I kidding?! They were gone almost before I could finish snapping these photos!

I adapted the recipe from the book Platters and Boards that my sister gifted to me for Christmas. The original recipe called for goat cheese, but I’m personally not a big fan, so I swapped it out for a mild and sharp cheddar four-state mix from Wisconsin, Vermont, New York, and California. I also realized that you could add so many more ingredients like bacon, mushrooms, spinach, or other meats, cheeses, and veggies, depending on your personal preference. This recipe offers a great starting point, but I’ll definitely be trying more variations soon!

Mini Tomato & Cheddar Frittatas

Ingredients:

  • 1 tsp olive oil
  • 1 large garlic clove, minced
  • 4 eggs
  • 2/3 cup milk (I used 2%)
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • 1/2 tsp freshly ground black pepper
  • 1 tsp Herbes de Provence
  • 1 oz cheddar cheese
  • 4-6 cherry tomatoes, quartered
  • Any other meat or veggies desired!

Make it!

  1. Preheat the oven to 375°F and line a 12-cup muffin tin with 6-7 liners. (The recipe is designed to make 6 frittatas; however, my batch yielded 7!)
  2. In a small skillet warm the olive oil over medium-low heat. Add the garlic and sauté for 30 seconds or until fragrant.
  3. In a small to medium-sized mixing bowl, whisk together the eggs, milk, and spices, adding back in the garlic.
  4. Pour into muffin tin, filling each liner about 3/4 of the way full. Drop 3-4 tomato pieces (or other meat and veggies) into each fritatta, sprinkling cheese on the top.
  5. Bake for 22-25 minutes, or until the eggs are set and beginning to brown on top.
  6. Let cool for about 5 minutes before serving; then enjoy!

Why We’re Proud to Pour These Eco-Friendly & Sustainable Wines

It’s probably clear that we really like a good wine. Who doesn’t like a good wine? But what if there was a way to drink a wine that’s not only good quality and tastes good, but also is doing good and making positive change in our world?

Well, we found a wine company that is doing just that: Proud Pour. Their wines are made from organic grapes that are sustainably grown, and each wine is dedicated to a specific cause to help make our world a better place for everyone.

Their sustainable wine lineup features a Pinot Noir for bees, a Rosé for reefs, a Syrah for soil, a cider for sea turtles, and a Sauvignon Blanc that supports the restoration of wild oysters.

We love all of Proud Pour’s wines, and are thrilled to support all of these causes, but if you’re not sure where to start, we wanted to share a couple of our faves.

Lauren really loves the Rosé for Reefs, not just because it looks pretty and tastes delicious, but because every three cases sold grows and plants a new baby coral to restore damaged reefs! Coral reefs help support 25% of all marine life, and provide a livelihood for millions of people through fishing and tourism.

Julia’s favorite is the Pinot Noir dedicated to helping save bees. Every bottle of this lovely red wine plants 35 sq ft of bee habitat on farms across North America, with over 90 acres of wildflowers planted to date! Bees are obviously important pollinators for our flowers and crops, and they actually pollinate one-third of the food we eat, from blueberries, to pumpkins, to watermelons, to tomatoes.

No matter what varietals you enjoy or what environmental causes are close to your heart, Proud Pour has something for everyone. No matter your choice(s), you can pour these wines knowing that you’re making a difference!